There are whole libraries full of books on leadership, as
well as countless magazine articles and an increasing number of blog articles. Many
of these mediums contain exactly the same message or messages, but in some
rather unique ways. Some try and identify THE most important aspect of
leadership, while others talk about the various components of leadership and
how all are critically important. With all that has been written about
leadership you would assume that most leaders, especially new leaders, would
quickly come to grasp the fundamentals required to lead their teams. None the
less, myths about leadership not only exist, but appear to be growing. Perhaps
this is because companies have laid off experienced managers and replaced them
with younger, less experienced managers in a misguided attempt to save money. Or
perhaps it is a lack of good role models in leadership that fosters the myths. But
in any event, myths and misconceptions about leadership abound.
Below are 5 myths about leadership that I experience most
often as a coach. These top 5 do not come from a scientific survey with
thousands of responses, but from my personal experience. See if these myths
match up with the things that you experience most often.
1. Management is the same as leadership
Too many people (myself included)
have a tendency to interchange the terms management and leadership. The result
is that we are unable to distinguish between one’s ability to manage a process and
their ability to lead people. Managing a process requires the intelligence and
logic to understand the process, identify the shortcomings, and hopefully
resolve them. The results are easily identifiable and measurable. Leading
people, on the other hand, requires an ability to identify and communicate
fuzzy concepts like vision and values, a willingness to live in the gray area
of human values, and an understanding of the illogical nature of human beings.
These concepts could not be more
different, yet the confusion remains.
2. Leadership cannot be learned
We often hear about someone’s
natural leadership abilities and how someone has been a leader their entire
life. Likewise, we associate certain personality traits with leadership and
believe that the lack of these traits means a lack of leadership abilities. The
reality is that some people ARE natural leaders. The skills required to
influence people come quite naturally to them. But the key here is that
leadership is not a talent, it’s a skill. And, like any skill, it can be learned.
It may not be easy for some people to learn and implement the skills of
leadership, but it is not impossible. With the right guidance and assistance, any
person can become a leader.
3. Leadership means controlling and manipulating others
Leadership is about influencing
others and having them want to do the things you need them to do. Leaders have
the ability to appeal to their followers and create a desire to achieve the
common goals. It is about creating an environment of motivation and passion for
the followers. Leaders create a feeling of openness and belonging. On the other
hand, some people believe that leading is about making someone do what they
don’t want to do. They use threats and intimidation to get things done. They
believe that using their “power” is leading. But forcing someone to do
something against their will is not leadership or motivation, it’s coercion. And
coercion is not leadership.
4. The leader is always the smartest person in the room
There is no question that leaders
tend to be intelligent people. And certainly there are times when the leader IS
the smartest person in the room. But, a real leader understands their own
limitations and focuses on the goals and vision of the organization. They
realize that they don’t have all of the answers. And, in doing so, they
routinely surround themselves with the smartest people they can find, listen to
them, and meld those ideas in with their own. The only way that the leaders are
the smartest people in the room is in the realization that they are NOT the
smartest people in the room.
5. Titles create leaders
This may be the most common myth of
leadership. And, this myth is common at all levels of the organization. But
whether the title is “Team Leader” or “Sr. Vice President”, leadership cannot
be bestowed through a title. The reason is quite simple. For someone to be a
leader, they must have followers. And, while a Sr. Vice President might have
staff below them, there is no guarantee that the staff is actually following
the leader. If you want to identify the leader in any organization, simply
check and see who the team turns to and who they listen to. That is your
leader, regardless of their title.
There you have my “Top 5 Myths of Leadership”. I would
certainly be interested in hearing your thoughts about the myths that you most
commonly see.
I hope that you enjoyed this
article. At ECI Learning Systems LLC we are dedicated to improving productivity
and profitability by creating engaged organizations. Our unique combination of
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Until
next time.....
Dave
Meyer
ECI
Learning Systems, LLC